Friday, August 7, 2015

Welcome to the Mind of the Millennial: Finding Fulfillment by Shattering Expectations

 Picture how you spend a typical day.  Do you go on Facebook? Check out the latest photo spread of the Kardashian clan on Instagram? Binge watch Girls while buying tickets to a Beyonce and Jay-Z concert? Powerful people are unavoidable.  Millennials are no exception.

Compassion: Cartoon Quotes from Inspirational Folks

Human beings naturally compare themselves to one another.  Millennials use this to their advantage by measuring success in different ways. Instead of measuring themselves against one another and letting others choose what is valuable, millennials decide for themselves. By doing this, they are able to create entirely new industries and transform lives.  

Founded by individuals just starting their careers, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook have become powerful media launching pads for young people to realize their dreams. With nearly 200,000 likes on Facebook, Zen Pencils is a website designed by Gavin Aung Than who left his job in the corporate graphic design industry to live out his passion for illustration and cartooning. His website showcases inspirational quotes from famous people in comics and cartoons.  

Than has literally drawn attention to many controversial news stories from around the world. Over 400 of his comic strips and illustrations have been featured in leading publications including The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, Slate, Buzzfeed, Gawker, Upworthy, Herald Sun and Daily Telegraph. He has also published several books composed of best comics. Most of his drawings feature sentimental illustrations in support of human rights and social justice, particularly in support of artistry and self- expression.

There is no time for writer’s block. Comic creation takes diligent constant attention. Than takes a quote and devises an entire panel of art from it. His favorite quotes come from American cartoonist Bill Waterson. “A person happy doing his own work is usually considered an eccentric, if not a subversive. Ambition is only understood if it’s to rise to the top of some imaginary ladder of success, as if a job title and salary are the sole measure of human worth. To invent your own life’s meaning is not easy but it’s still allowed and I think you will be happier for the trouble.”

Making the World a Happier Place

Beginning her career with Teach for America, Natasha Vaynblat used her experiences in the classroom to transform her fears and self-deprecation into artless performance. After four years teaching inner city kids of New York, she gained the courage to pursue her dream of comedy. She now writes and performs for the Upright Citizen Brigade Theater and co-writes the YouTube clip show, Girls Writer’s Room

Vaynblat notes that it takes a great deal of creativity to handle the classroom. She used to take a frying pan into work to bang against the wall if her student’s got too loud. No one in the administration told her to stop. Her ingenuity didn’t end here.

During one particular lesson when one of her more challenging students dozed off, she wrote on the projector that the class was to complete a surprise quiz. All they had to do was write “we do not sleep in class”. She told the class that for the rest of the lesson she would speak only in Russian. When the perplexed student awoke, Vaynblat was speaking in Russian and the rest of the class looked like everything was perfectly normal. The next day, the student fell asleep, again.

Novel Rule Breakers

Millennials are not afraid of holding back, expressing themselves, or being rejected. Being vulnerable can actually breed the most courage. It takes inner strength to take active steps to outrun old conditioning when others choose complacency. 
                                                                           
At the age of 25, Laci Green was frustrated by the treatment of sex education in her community. The way America treats sex is fear driven. At planned parenthood, Laci used trust, communication, safety and knowledge are the primary motivating factors behind her sex-ed series. In order to reach more people, she decided to use YouTube as a platform to talk about everything sex related inlcluding body image, masturbation, losing one’s virginity, being in long term relationships, sexting and sexuality. She uses a down-to-earth conversational style to promote open, honest dialogue around sex. After accruing over a million followers, she is now a highly vocal feminist with her own MTV show called braless.

With every new development in technology, it is inevitable that people will use it to connect with each other in more intimate ways. It allows people to feel closer for long distance couples and can bring excitement to exploratory and open-minded singles. There are fewer barriers and more accessibility to share sex messages. Green has tips to explore sex responsibly through technology. Some advice: send faceless pictures, explore your comfort level in terms of who you share intimate content, be in control of your actions instead of appealing to someone else, make sure your partners have as much respect for you as you do for them.

Remember Matilda? Actress Mara Mara Wilson, now a prolific writer and tweeter, accompanied Green on her sex series to talk about the importance of making sex a positive part of life. At the age of 26, Wilson recounts growing up with casual sexism that prompted her to become a feminist. She emphasizes that being a feminist means not judging women for their gender or appearance but by their actions. A lot of people think the fast track to adulthood is by being sexy. In reality one’s appearance is not for the masses and people are more than what they look like.

Some of the most impressive and authentic people of this generation have been discovered on social media. Grace Helbig, Hannah Hart and Mamrie Hart are YouTube’s “holy trinity.”  These three close comedic friends that also made their public debut on YouTube and now have several movies, podcasts and books where they mentor their growing audience navigate adulthood. Helbig has garnered a massive audience from her Daily Grace YouTube show and is now transitioning to an E! late night talk show. She plans to interview, sing songs, and act out skits with major stars with the aplomb and honesty of an awkward older sister.

This is not a derogatory, ill-fitting persona. The awkward older sister is becoming a powerful presence in the media and particularly on YouTube. Twentysomethings have taken the reins of social media posting unfettered advice, music videos and how-to instructional recordings assuring teens that it is perfectly normal and even encouraged to get messy and make mistakes.

Hannah and Mamrie have also scored millions of views for their equally friendly and funny videos. Hannah accumulated over 100,000 hits on YouTube after posting a video chatting with a friend while making a grilled cheese sandwich without any cheese. After viewers asked for more episodes, she compiled a series of recordings into the hit show My Drunk Kitchen, where she has celebrity guests make food while mildly intoxicated.  Her channel has won the Streamy Award for Best Female Performance in a Comedy as well as Best Comedy and in 2014, Hannah co-hosted the 4th Streamy Awards with Grace Helbig. Hannah now has over 2 million subscribers, over 170 million views and has already completed a world tour.

With over 900,000 subscribers, over 42 million views, Mamrie Hart has also won a Streamy Award for Best Actress in a Comedy for her YouTube show You Deserve a Drink, and published a book of the same title. Mamrie frequently collaborates with Grace and Hannah. In 2012, they created a live variety show called #NoFilter with comedy sketches, improve, giveaways, and songs. They star in a film Hannah co-wrote called Camp Takota which released in 2014. Behind the comedy is a simple message: go after what is most important to you and find the humor behind every adventure.

When we give and open ourselves to vulnerability, something magical happens; we become more of who we are. Clearly, this is a gift millennials refuse to waste.